First Post! 11/17/2007
 

Their are absolutely NO dumb questions when it comes to Pre-Ejaculating, Erectile Dysfunctions and Ejaculatory disorders! Ask Mila is a compassionate blog to help reach out to couples and individuals who are brushed off by their physicians with their serious concerns.

Please ask your questions with class! No vulgar language will be tolerated. Enjoy and I hope you find my Natural Remedies helpful.

 


Comments

Mr. E

Mon, 10 Dec 2007 11:12:22

What do you know about the correlation between ejaculation and the prostate? Does it really help the prostate in a good way? Have a good one,

 

~M

Mon, 10 Dec 2007 11:45:54

The prostate produces the fluid which accompanies the sperm during ejaculation (PRE-CUM). Located deep within the pelvis, it sits on top of the urethra, the tube connection the penis to the bladder. It is located in the front of rectum and below the bladder, below the urine storage.

The prostate enlarges as a man ages, also known as prostate hyperplasia or hypertrophy if you need me to get technical. This could provoke some bladder irritations or possible inflammation and infection or problems with urination, such as hesitant, interrupted, weak stream urgency and leaking or dribbling more frequent urination. -I also treat the dribbles through penis fitness training!

OK that was the clinical part, but bottom-line is that the prostate gets so sensitive as you aquire more stress in your life. All of your nerve endings sit right by the tail bone and all throughout the prostate. There are tender fibers that strongly vibrate if strummed gently (MY SPECIALTY IN SHOWING YOU AND YOUR PARTNER HOW). If you are into anal play you may have damaged these tender fibers. Askme later on how to repair.

Back to your question, Correlation between ejaculation and prostate is that it's scientifically proven, that premature ejaculation and the erection flow is supported by the prostate gland. Again pre-cum is part of the prostate. And yes, if you stimulate it correctly along with anal muscle exercises, you are generating great circulation, unblocking stagnant energy and flow.

On an ED note--Prostate issues are mostly one of main reasons for mens impotence or so called erectile dysfunction. It is the inability to achieve an erection, and/or dissatisfaction with the size, rigidity, and/or duration of erections. -Ask me about natural solutions, like my ED Vac Program.

It's simple, the strenghth of the flow is determined by the prostate's size. This is from hands on facts that I've discovered through my own personal partners!!!!

I promise you this, NO Doctor is going to be massaging you and asking you "Ok, sweetie does that feel good, is it turning you on, ooooh yeah honey that's the spot, RIGHT THERE uhhhhh (5 second sigh) BREATHE...Aaaaaaaaahh". I coach you and your partner on direction in finding your sacred hot spots!

 

AgrippaTZ

Sat, 02 Feb 2008 11:34:48

Dear Mila,


I was married for a long time (29 years, plus years of living together before marriage with the same woman). Over this time I adapted to the needs of my wife who required long periods of intercourse to reach orgasm (she also required a fair amount of time to have an orgasm through oral stimulation as well). As a result, I sort of taught myself how to hold back my own orgasm in order not to lose an erection. Now that I am no longer married and am seeing other women, I find that with many women I don't have to hold back, but I can't seem to untrain myself. On the one hand I can maintain an erection for a long time, which I suppose some might view as a positive. On the other hand, I would actually like to be able to ejaculate sooner since once I've gotten over that initial barrier I can recover pretty quickly and then it tends to take me a much shorter period of time to reach a second or sometimes a third climax. After such a long period of time, how do I untrain myself to just let go?

Many thanks for considering this query and for being available for such. [My doctor's response to this was pretty much "what's the problem?"]

Agrippa

 

~M

Sat, 02 Feb 2008 11:50:28

Dear Agrippa,

You do not need to untrain yourself. Let's not go to the extreme and start popping like your 25 years old. Let the body go like you were going to orgasm, but when you are at the edge, BREATHE SLOW! Let that training kick in. Breathe in that beautiful orgasm with out the release.

HAVE THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS!

Learning to control the edge is key. But allow yourself to get there!!

Nirvana awaits. Nirvana= DEEP EMOTIONAL MULTIPLES!

Do not conform to your lovers mainstream thoughts to making love. Salvage that amazing sensual essence that you've developed for so many years.

You lasted with your x-ex-lover for a very long time for a reason!!!! Don't cheapen your journey just cause your new lovers do not know any better.

Join my class of Tantric Bliss with your lover and I can help coach a happy blend of your style fused with hers!

Oh and your ex, is she single? LOL!

Mila

 

2fast

Tue, 29 Apr 2008 10:21:06

Dear Mila,

I am 35 years old and have experienced PE since I became sexually active at 15. It's very embarassing for me and has been the cause of insecurities in my relationships. I've never been to a "coach" for this and I have read that there really is no "cure".. Please tell me what I have read is incorrect and that you can help.

2fast.

 

Trying

Tue, 13 May 2008 14:32:32

My wife gets so wet I can not feel anything, so we adapt by having little fore play. What can we do?

 

Mila

Fri, 23 May 2008 10:11:07

When your wife gets too wet, you will loose traction. She needs to start tightening up so she can get soaked yet her kitty is super tight.

I teach vaginal rejuvenation to escorts. Because when it cums down to it, the tightest pussy wins! Wins the pleasure, respect and the repeat play.

Meanwhile absorb with a towel every 4 pumps. This can be amazing fun!

Do not have her buy the Chinese kitty shrinking cream! I can tell you the secret herb! Just PM me!

Once you get this fixed, I guess we won't be seeing you anymore?

More of a reason to come to my couples retreat!

 

Jeff

Mon, 21 Jul 2008 11:46:03

I've been learning about tantra for 3 years and have been married for 33 years. For most of our marriage, my wife has had endometriosis problems, making intercourse painful. Thus, I became conditioned to come quickly to ease her discomfort.

Since learning about tantra and massaging her sacred spot, intercourse now has become very pleasurable! I would like to last longer within her to give her greater pleasure, but too often come within a couple minutes.

What can you suggest to help?

Thanks!

 

~M

Sun, 01 Feb 2009 19:16:31

I did reply via email, but I think I should also share this on my blog. for all to learn!

Jeff,
Have sex with you gluiding outside only. Learn how to move as if you were inside her. A great position is her bent over with your penis being squeezed between her thighs. the friction should feel as good as sex, IF you are gluiding naturally, the head of your penis will hit her clit. Then apply the stamina exercise that I have taught you. Your wife needs to be way more lubed up. If you work the stamina long enough, that would give her time to produce the juice!

 

scott

Tue, 14 Apr 2009 19:37:44

Hi- I am a 44 year old man and I am having problems acheiving an erection without alot of kissing. Do you have any suggestions?

 

mila

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 02:06:07

You need it to be real. You are an emotional and sensitive person. You have been neglected or denied in the past so if you do not feel a genuine love, you may not get hard. Totally common. You can't have the "ohhh baby, your so big" fake talk. You see right through it! Kissing is a great awakening for any many. Wet soft lips and breathing in youth can be quite powerful! If you want to still get hard but your lady is a bit disconnected, then I suggest you massage her and have her start being responsive from the heart. Because not too many girls like to JUST kiss.They like a safe touch to get them going. Be appreciative and petals unfold!

I hope this helped Scotty Boy!

Love
Mila

 

Mila

Fri, 26 Jun 2009 07:20:39

Here is my penile stretching exercise! THIS WORKS! Good Luck and feel free if you need that extra support, to give me a ring!


Before we beigin this step, you need to have my all time secret, here goes...GRAPE-SEED OIL!
Cover your penis and hands with this special oil. When you stroke, you will totally know what I'm talking about!
To do this exercise you need a semi erect penis.
Again in the same hand action as the stretch, fore finger tip to thumb tip.
1. Hold the penis at the base. Hold this grip comfortably firm but not squeeze totally, but very firm!
2. Still holding that grip slide your hand up to the bottom of the head of your penis. This sliding motion should take 2 seconds from base to head.
3. When you reach the bottom of the head hold for another 2 seconds and inhale! Make sure you breathe deep enough to get the oxygen flowing down there!
4. After the 4 seconds take your other hand and repeat process. 2 of my secrets revealed; BREATHING VERY DEEP AND HOLDING and the perfect grip. Not so tight so the blood can flow, but tight enough so the blood can not escape. Get it????


The Squeeze

The thickening exercise where you see best results for the girth is through how and when to squeeze your bootie/kegal/prostate.
The squeeze is a very powerful exercise and should not be over done.
1. To do the squeeze you must grip with both hands.
2. You need a semi erect penis.
3. Have one hand with the above mentioned grip. First hand at the base of your penis, the other just under the head. Hold in this position tightly, you should feel the blood rush to the centre chambers of your penis.
4. As you are holding tightly, push your hands together, as if you are trying to compress your penis. Hold for 10 seconds. YOU WILL BE BREATHING DEEPLY THROUGH THIS PROCESS. One long 10 second breath!
5. Release and let your penis then relax for 2 seconds.
6. Do one hard kegel squeeze (your bootie).
7. Repeat the process. Trick again...Not so tight so the blood can flow, but tight enough so the blood can not escape. And very deep breaths. KEY IS OXYGEN TRAVELING TO YOUR UNIT AS YOU ALLOW YOUR PENILE MUSCLES to stretch.

Muah-muah Mila

 



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